长篇影评
1 ) If I am a house.
I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.
With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of the cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built. On rock, facing the sea, listening, listening.
2 ) 面朝大海,风景无限。
大二的时候英语听力课上看的,当时没怎么看懂,没有字幕。就是觉得房子真漂亮。面朝大海,风景无限。要是自己有这样的房子就好了,这是印象最深的。
当时的情节大概还记得偷情,房子太高了有人投诉。
3 ) 情系屋檐下
剧情有点老套,不过总体上还可以。克里斯滕森刚出场的扮相好惊艳啊,让我想起了《天鹅绒金矿》里的乔纳森,呵呵~
里面的那个母亲看起来好面熟,可是就是叫不出名字,终于想起来好像是《英国病人》的女主,貌似《四个婚礼一个葬礼》中暗恋休格兰特好多年的那个女友也是她演的;里面的女孩也是一个脸熟的演员,好像是《荒野生存》里面的妹妹,不确定,有时间再核实一下下。
好喜欢那座海边的房子啊,我的梦想就是住在面朝大海的房子里。虽然大学的宿舍就在海边,但是大连的海和电影里的差好多,风大,没有浪,夏天到处都是赶不走的苍蝇。唉,只能在电影里过瘾了~
4 ) 「Quotes」
「Everything about you is my business. What you smoke, what you sniff, what you swallow, it's all my business.
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I've been using since I was 12! You're also unbelievably stupid, you know that? You didn't give a shit about anything I did up until now!
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Well, I'll apologize for everything but today! Today I give a shit!」
「You know the great thing, though? It's that change can be so constant that you don't even feel the difference until there is one. It can be so slow that you don't know that your life is better or worse until it is. Or it can just blow you away, make you something different in an instant. It happened to me. Build this house with me.」
「Do I still Love you? Absolutely. There is not a doubt in my mind. Through all my anger, my ego. I was always faithful in my Love for you. That I made you doubt it, that is the great mistake of a Life full of mistakes. The truth doesn't set us free, Robin. I can tell you I love you as many times as you can stand to hear it and all that does, the only thing, is remind us... that Love is not enough. Not even close.」
「Sometimes things happen for a reason. You know, something bad to force something good.」
「You know you were dying from the start?
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We're all dying from the start. I just got moved to the head of the line.」
「You selfish fuck. Having me here, trying to get me to like you?
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No, Sam. I wasn't trying to get you to like me. I was trying to get you to love me.
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Well, congratulations. 'Cause you fucking pulled it off!」
「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」
「With every crash of every wave, I hear something now. I never listened before. I'm on the edge of a cliff, listening. Almost finished. If you were a house, Sam, this is where you would want to be built, on rock, facing the sea. Listening. Listening.」
5 ) 如果觉得哪里不对,就需要系统性地分析
我开始在想,我上次快乐是什么时候,总之是很久之前了,久到记不得因为什么而快乐。
本片不知是因为这部电影而造了这么一栋房子,还是因为造房子而有了这部电影,但是,这个故事显然在线,阳光正面,很有精神。但哪怕是这么正向的电影也难免夹杂着一些不能接受的点,原来早在2001年美国就开始了多元性别和各种离婚再组家庭的相关电影了,确实先进,有些叹为观止。
各种混乱的男女关系就不用说了,强行的煽情着实吃不消,但如果把那些在我看来非常不正的内容删减掉一些,这是一部非常值得称赞的电影。
个人的家庭生活会改变人的心理健康,美国有那么多问题家庭,所造成的问题青年又会有多少呢?如果细数一下这部电影中有多少问题人物,一定会吓坏观众。
第一位,这位即将离世其言也善的父亲,他的童年就极具问题色彩,他甚至想开枪打死他爸。
第二位,那位再婚的丈夫,空有家财万贯,却谁也不在乎,他的孩子甚至都不愿意与他亲近,这样一个人,他的童年必然也是在缺乏父母的关爱中长大的,
第三位,美女邻居,基本不用多说,把女儿的男朋友都吃干抹净了。而且造房子时叫了一大队帮工,口中还说了一句为了赎罪,极大可能是她勾引了第一位问题父亲才导致的这个家庭破碎。而且由始至终也没有这位女邻居与妻子的同框对话,这样就合理了。
第四位,美女邻居的女儿,原因也不用多说了吧,有这么一位风流的母亲,她的女儿也完美继承了这方面的基因,在电影中也有许多镜头可以支撑我的观点。
第五位,这位女儿的明面上男友,拉皮条,卖大麻,虽然给的镜头和内容不是很多,但从侧面分析,他的问题也很大。能被妈妈桑轻易勾引,总觉得有点奇怪。
第六位,男邻居,铁gay,还是恋童癖,叫未成年男同学上他车干好事,一下就带过了,还是被敏锐的我发现。
第七位,男主角,原因也自不用多说,全片就围绕着他和他父亲展开,问题一堆没有任何争议,生活在继父的家里,被全家不待见,甚至还有一位脾气古怪的父亲。
那么这部电影中所出场的主要角色才几个人,都差不多轮了一遍,这么一通分析,这部电影又变成了不堪入目了。实事求是来说,我也未曾想到,竟有如此颠覆的结论出现。或许表面和谐的一切都有着潜藏于水下的巨大暗流,如果这一切发生在美国,又显得合理了起来。
6 ) Gone gone for ever down
There is a river called THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
Sometimes it's peaceful and sometimes wild and free!
Love is a trav'ler on THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
Swept on for ever to be lost in the stormy sea
I lost my love on the river and for ever my heart will yearn
Gone gone for ever down THE RIVER OF NO RETURN
在纽约的暴雨闪电中, 有人欣慰拥抱, 有人绝望亲吻, 有人在雨中独行。
我喜欢Woody Allen的眼神, 真挚而又无奈, 我们会走近, 也会离开, 会前行, 也会停留,在美好或绝望情感中真实地活着。
心理学家Willam James这么写过:
“we must let our feelings go, and pay no regard to them whatever. To wrestle with a bad feeling only pins our attention on it, and keeps it still fastened in the mind: whereas, if we act as if from some better feeling, the old bad feeling soon folds its tent like an Arab, and silently steals away.“
他是想说情感不是本质不变的, 而心中的信念才是,我们可以改变自己的生活来改变情感.
最近读的两本充满激情的“商业"书 (37signals 写的Rework, Seth Godin写的Linchpin), 充满了这样的想法: 像一个人一样去改变世界, 改变自己。
Life is a river of no return. But who cares. 我们在乎的只是去体会和改变, 以自己的想法。
hayden was born to play whiny boys
虽然逻辑上有很多瑕疵,但是最后还是被狠狠的感动了。Christensen演得不错,能和Kline拼一拼,出场的扮相很惊艳啊。好多年前就想看了,总算有片源了。
“我常把自己当做一个房子,我就是住在里面的人,不必很大,不必很漂亮,只需是我的,我成为了该成为的人,给自己建立生活,给自己建立一个房子,这里就是你想扎根的地方,建在岩石上,朝海,听,听……”
这海报真好看~
影片其实贯穿了一条主线:那就是父爱如山。影片最后主角那份对生命的意义的诠释可谓是至善至美。影片69分多钟的时候那首米雪儿的歌,让我想起了《真爱至上》里艾玛哭泣的场景。同样是一首歌。《真》里是悲伤的情绪,而在这部电影里则是美好的情绪,两人热情相拥在夕阳下的大海边跳舞,唯美的很。倾听
活着,像下一秒即将死去那样活着,爱一切爱你的人,要勇敢。有梦的时候,不顾一切去追寻,哪怕注定失败,也要倒在拼尽全力的尝试中。给自己一次生活的权利,为自己而活,一秒是自己的一秒,一生是自己的一生。
随着年纪渐长 看到至亲因病逝世这样的故事 就忍不住老泪纵横袅~~~~~同时,觉得很写意是~~~~有一所房子 建在岩石上 面朝大海 随意飙尿~~~~~
Everything happens for a reason,and love ur mom and dad isn't enough,u have to make them know,maybe just one hug。
一个完整温馨的故事,一座有血有肉的房子~
故事比较模式,将死的父亲重视生活。但是好在导演处理的很好,情感到位,画面美丽,节奏引人入胜
7.5/10;被表演提升了整体质量的电影。A cliché,但完全可以为了Kline的表演再看一遍,他甚至把一些cheesy台词演绎得幽默而真诚。KST也很美,为了男女主角这片值得一看。喜欢亲情煽情片的不容错过= =
好嫩的海登,还有进取号船长,还有某吸血鬼电视剧主角,好可爱的拉布拉多 ~故事挺好~
蛮值得一看的电影,即使是生命就在建造屋子的过程中渐渐随着夕阳消失在地平线,亲情还有爱情依然会绽放无限余晖!!!
On rock,facing the sea,lisent.
▤「I always thought of myself as a house. I was always what I lived in. It didn't need to be big. It didn't even need to be beautiful. It just needed to be mine. I became what I was meant to be. I built myself a life. I built myself a house.」
从父子两一起抡大锤开始,到影片的最后,我哭的稀里哗啦,这部影片,就是一催泪弹!
2013Feb27,上海吴中路,豆瓣梗概。
好久没有这种感动,我想生命里美还是占大多数。
如今看来,故事虽然老套,但情感却依旧感人,而且父亲在里面的台词,几乎可以用经典来形容。
这么好的片子怎么从来不知道